Why are you living by ‘should’ rather than ‘want’?

From the outside, your life might look quite good. You work, take care of your family, handle daily tasks. Yet inside, you increasingly feel that you are not living quite the way you would like to. As if something were missing. As if you were on your way, but did not know where. Many people live without direction, without joy. Over time, emptiness, burnout, and apathy set in. Perhaps that is why, over the years, material things bring less and less joy, relationships fade, and you become boring to yourself. This happens because we grow tired of living out of obligation and carrying responsibilities without ever discovering our own path and direction.

Jolanta Šindeikienė

Hello, I am Jolanta. Throughout my practice, I often see how people lose themselves trying to live up to the expectations of others. I created this test to help you pause, if only for a moment, look inward, and understand more clearly where your personal transformation could begin.

This test will help you better understand what is currently preventing you from experiencing inner clarity, and in which direction it is worth seeking answers.
Why are you living by ‘should’ rather than ‘want’?

Answer the questions by choosing the single response that best reflects your current situation.